Will You Forgive Me?

Dear Daughters,

I will mess up. It happens way more often than I would like. And some days just seem to be characterized by my frustrations. So at the end of those days, all I know to do is admit my faults to the Lord and to you. And it has happened this week already.

I'm sorry. Will you please forgive me? 

Know that when I get frustrated, it is often more of a reflection of my own heart rather than something you have done. When I get overly upset, it is usually because I haven't taken a moment to gain some perspective, reflect on grace, and set aside my selfishness and pride. 

Now, of course there will be times when you will need to be disciplined, but whenever I am in the wrong, I want to be quick to ask for your forgiveness. We want our home to be a safe place, a place of authenticity and forgiveness, patience and love. We want you to hear from us that we are sinners, too, in desperate need of God's grace and mercy and forgiveness. 

And the wonderful news is God loves a repentant heart and wants to forgive. It is woven throughout all of Scripture. 

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. {1 John 1: 9}

When we remember the grace we have been given and all we have been forgiven of, we can readily give grace to others and forgive. We can go to others with humility knowing the restoration that comes after repentance and forgiveness is so worth it. ​

Be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. {Ephesians 4:32

Daughters, know that confession is powerful. It fosters gospel community and it will keep you from suffocating in sin. And know that seeking forgiveness is not a sign of weakness. In fact, it is the opposite. It is courageous and brave. It brings light to the darkness. Humbling yourself to seek forgiveness from another is incredibly compelling. The world will take notice of a humble heart and a meek spirit, even if it doesn't admit it. 

Stay low before the Lord and before others. Jesus will raise you up in due time. 

Seeking Forgiveness,
​Mama